"The Foundation of Child's Future - Family"

Every human being on earth has to live in a state of child for five years after birth. And in this state, the more a man learns, the less it counts for him because this is the age when a child has more learning power. Whatever the child is interested in, the thing,work, or any other stuff of his liking is memorized immediately. At this age the child learns to speak, walk, and so on, but the main contributor to all this is the environment in which the child is nurtured. For example, if a child is born in a Blacksmith's house, the environment is conducive to it, while if a child is born in Scrap-Collector's house , the environment is conducive to the child.

But I want to talk about his Sacrament (સંસ્કાર) here, what sacrament a child should have so that he can do good to himself and his family. In the present generation, the parents have to be active in the job or business so that their family can easily cope with the inflation and changing situation but this one question raises questions about the behavior of the child in more than 80% of the families. The main reason for this is parents,because they do not have time from their work and the work is being piled up as time goes.  As the child grows up, he begins to consider outsiders, as his role models and no this parents. They starts considering  the people around them or the friends who study in the school as their role models and gradually they do not like to talk to their parents. In the past, when a child was born in a large family, that is, when all family members lived together, such as uncles, aunts, grandparents, there were not many questions about raising a child, but the current situation is very different.No man has respect for anyone, no faith, every one  - is busy thinking of themselves .That is why parents have the right to ask their child questions about the until he or she is qualified and have attained maturity. They should make all the clarifications about what the child has to do and what path he or she has to take. Because today's child learns a lot by watching TV but do not know whether it is right for him or not. I don't think all the programs shown on TV are child-promoting. Some programs are good but they do not appeal to the child and he doesn't comes up with ideas of what to do and what not to . At that time even the parents do not know which way my child is going and later regret for it. All this happens due to the negligence of the parents towards the child. Talk to child about what he/she is  doing right now, how's the learning, and how much liking he/she has about the learning, not just asking, It is also the responsibility of parents to know what they are interested in. Apart from teaching the child, make him interested in certain things like reading the life events of great men. Give knowledge of Dharma at certain times. Talk about a good, respectable person around you. Doing so will give the child confidence in you, respect, and talk to you before asking  the other person's advice. Doing so will move your child's mind toward a brighter future. That's all in this article .. A lot can be written on this topic but the present generation needs a brief description  and not the whole story as it happens because no one has time to read more at the moment.

Thank you so much for reading the article.

-In English by Harit and Gujarati by Urav