"Self-esteem or Pride"

Self-esteem means respect for oneself while pride means respect for thing, time, place, money, etc.

The present generation considers both to be the same.

But there is a big difference between them. Man is not self-respecting or arrogant from birth but time makes him that. When he gets more respect he starts to feel that everyone is below than me.Those people can never equal me. Such as thoughts begin to come to his mind. Every man's temperament and behavior does not change with respect but 90% of man's nature and behavior changes and he gets a little proud because of the respect he gets. There are many other things with respect, Like, power, money, all these things create pride in his mind, now he starts to think that I am him, other people understand him as a younger man, then he will do any kind of activities with others and he will take full credit for it. It seems that all this is happening because of me, I was what I was, now slowly the seed of pride in his mind begins to become a tree and now his intellect is weakening towards good thinking. Thoughts of a trivial person begin to come into his mind. He does not appreciate others, he treats others as he sees fit, he does not see if others are bothered by it. He gets used to all such bad habits like speaking like that, not respecting big or small. Gradually he loses a lot of things due to lack of pride, such as not using work money, misusing his power, not using time wisely, not valuing things, forgetting that everyone is the same person and not appreciating it. , All these habits break him mentally one day and in the end nothing stays with him. And man finally realizes the biggest mistake of his life and regrets it.

        What is self-esteem? Is it the same as pride. Does it ruin man and man's life? If there are so many questions in our minds, let's take a look at self-esteem.

 Self-esteem means self-respect, a person who does not have self-respect can never respect others. If life is ours, first we should respect ourselves, but now we are so intruding into the lives of others that we have forgotten our own self-respect. No one cares, no one likes your little behavior, so if you say yes, then don't see that man is using me, to lose your happiness so that no one gets annoyed with you, sometimes it happens where there is no appreciation Going there and getting up, even if you value yourself a little, you are also a man, you should also be appreciated. Sometimes you even mortgage your self-esteem and eventually get frustrated. I understand everyone, no one understands me,

Who else understands you? Someday you will understand yourself. Who are you? , You were not born to make others happy, you also have your own life,

If all these thoughts never come, then only one thought, this is the way it is. It's not time to blame others, but it's time for others to appreciate you. First, think about what I have to do. And what can I do?

 But we don't know what can happen with self-esteem?

 Success comes quickly to anyone who has self-esteem because it always does

Spend more time for yourself. He keeps planning what he wants to do. He lives in the touch of very few people. He also spends time for relationships but he knows what is going on in the other person's life. He is not interested in knowing her, he always gives importance to his own life. Having self-esteem increases a person's self-confidence and if one makes a person successful, it is his own self-confidence. Even if the whole world says it won't happen to you, but as long as one has faith in oneself, one can guess.

A self-respecting person never tolerates insults, he does not stand up even for a moment where he is not appreciated.

    In this world, many have become arrogant and ruined because of arrogance.

But I believe that as long as there is self-respect within every successful person.